Would you like to better understand your sexual self?

Want the support of a compassionate guide yet have privacy and a self-paced format?

Welcome

I’m Jean Franzblau, the writer and star of the solo show, My Mother Doesn’t Know I’m Kinky. Though sexuality is a natural part of life, it’s fraught with so much shame in our broken culture. I’ve spent years finding my own answers and bushwacking a path towards wholeness. 

Along the way, I’ve learned that it’s useful to take a nonjudgmental look at what it is that I find “hot.” (It’s actually a bunch of things!) My nickname for this personal erotic catalog is a sexual bucket list. 

If you’re feeling called to create your very first list, this class is for you. And if you’ve been around the sexual block a few times, you can use it to see which of your interests are consistent, how you’ve evolved over time, and what adventures you may want to pursue next. 


A shortcut for your journey

I’ve designed this experience so that each lesson builds easily on the lesson before. You can expect clear communication, candid language and simple activities that work. You can go through the course solo or invite a safe friend to join you. And I've curated a list of resources for you at the end. 

A full brain learning experience


The workshop appeals to the different parts of your learning mind. There are:

  • Items for you to read

  • Audio recordings to hear

  • Videos to watch

  • Prompts to keep you engaged

Bonus! I’ve inserted the occasional fruit image - because I think they’re kind of sexy.


Course curriculum

I’ll encourage you every step of the way with my gentle, trauma-informed approach.

  • 1
    Welcome
    • A message from Jean
    • How to use this course
    • Here's the plan
    • Self-care
  • 2
    Sex Scene Challenge
    • List Your Favorite Scenes
    • What Turned You On?
  • 3
    Self Pleasure Reflection
    • What Do You Think About?
    • Vulnerable Share
    • Debrief
  • 4
    Sexual Bucket List
    • Tips and List Making
  • 5
    Sexual Integrity
    • Consent
  • 6
    Set a Gentle Goal
    • B.E.S.T. Goals
    • In Summary
  • 7
    Next steps
    • Resources for you
    • Before you go...

Curious about my credentials?

My mission is to shift the culture to a more compassionate world - whether it’s as a consent expert at universities, an intimacy professional for TV, film and theater, a teacher of cuddle therapy, or a performer of my solo show. 


I’ve presented at sexuality conferences on both coasts and for audiences around the country and abroad. In terms of schooling, I graduated cum laude with a B.A. in Communications from UCLA. 


You can find my writing in The Consent Guidebook and the anthology Embraceable: Empowering Facts and True Stories About Women’s Sexuality. My work has been featured in The Atlantic, Business Insider and Playboy Radio.




Here's what students are saying

"This is a wonderful well-designed course. I've got my bucket list in place now. Thank you!" D.T.



"The workshop was really to the point. The worksheets were nice and efficient. The course had depth and was really reassuring" V.B.



Self compassion and self acceptance - in all areas of life, including the sexual - are ingredients for a better world.